July 28, 2003

To shop or not

On shopping for a parish. Sigh. The parish in whose territory we live is a fine small-town parish with a good number of vocations and a growing Hispanic population, and the priest is as good and faithful as any in this marvelous diocese. Problem: when I hear the cheezy electronic keyboard accompanying a jaunty "Ollie Ollie Ollie - Loo Ooh Yuh", it's like a fluttering red cape to a bull. Yeah, I should get over it, but until I do I'll worship there in an oppressed rage.

That's one reason why just this week we've moved to a different parish. It has a fully developed path of formation for children, including an excellent K-8 school in case we decide to stop homeschooling, and it worships in the most sublimely beautiful church in the diocese. As the pastor said yesterday, all that beauty doesn't really matter - when he was in Korea they were happy to celebrate Mass anywhere - and yet it does matter.

Have you shopped for parishes?

Posted by billw at July 28, 2003 06:32 PM
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After a couple of years of subtle attempts to encourage more orthodoxy at my domicile parish ("St. Amchurch's Catholic Community"), I gave up and went back to the parish where I received the sacramental grand slam back in '94 (baptism, confirmation, Eucharist and wedding). Still a few variations from the rubrics here, but nothing like a Mass where a teenage girl reads the Gospel while her classmates gather and kneel at the altar around her, before the pastoral assistant sister delivers the homily. I'm not making that up, it really happened at the last Mass I ever attended at "Our Lady of Perpetual Dissent".

Posted by: Ed at July 29, 2003 07:03 AM

I'm fortunate enough to have a Byzantine Catholic Church near me and once you go Byzantine Catholic, you never go back. What a divine liturgy! It's as reverent as the Latin Mass while being comprehensible (I'm a Latin ignoramous).

Some weekends I try to hit my home parish for the readings and homily before leaving (since I'd already received the Eucharist at the Byzantine church).

Posted by: TS O'Rama at July 29, 2003 08:53 AM

When we moved to the sw suburbs of Chicago in 99 we had to parish shop...we attended our "home" parish once, no reverence, no crucifix, no kneelers, people talking during the entire Mass, etc. we ended up finding a parish in another suburb (Elmhurst) with a wonderful Orthodox pastor, perpetual adoration, wonderful homilies. We paid two tolls to get there. Now that we are back in the unchurched pac nw, we went back to our old parish, but our 80 yo pastor finally retired, now the church has no pastor. Most of the families that used to attend our old church now attend a wonderful little polish parish. The pastor is a young polish priest, who hears confession before every Mass, gives excellent homiles and we sing the Sanctus, Kyrie and the Agnus Dei, in Latin. We won't go back. The few times we had to attend a "life teen" mass at another parish, we were reminded of why we parish shop. At the life teen Masss there was: NO reverence, teens chewing gum, talking during the Consecration, etc., no kneeling for any part of the mass. Very upsetting. My first obligation is to pass the faith to my kids, they will only be confused/led astray by heterodox liturgies.

Posted by: Jane at July 29, 2003 10:28 AM

Dear Mr. White,

I didn't think one was supposed to. I say out of one side of my mouth. And then add, after the first mass at my local parish where I saw liturgical dancing, what looked like female coconsecration of the eucharist, etc. I found a different place.

shalom,

Steven

Posted by: Steven Riddle at July 29, 2003 12:33 PM

Though I didn't agree with her (see comment #1 above), Maureen McHugh of "A Religion of Sanity" makes a thoughtful case for staying put, archived at "Catholic Communalism"

Posted by: Ed at July 29, 2003 02:19 PM

I don't actually have a parish- I go to Mass, etc. at the campus ministry where I went to college. The fact that I became a Secular of the community that runs the ministry gives me a great excuse for sticking around even though I haven't been in college for years. (Yes, they are a Newman center with solid homilies, reverent Masses, good music, etc.- too many Newman Centers are disgraces to the Venerable's name, alas ! )

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